8 Ways to spice up Oral Sex

Going down is about to get even better

You probably have a ton of favorite positions when it comes to sex, but what about foreplay? If your pre-sex routine is feeling, well, routine, it’s time to get creative with your mouth moves.

One Up
This little tweak to traditional on-your-back oral gives you even more control. Lie down at the edge of the bed, and have your guy kneel on the floor in front of you. Raise one leg up, and support it by wrapping your hands around your hamstring. This raises your hip just a bit so you can add some movement to aid in his stroking. 

Closed for Business
If direct clitoral stimulation is too much for you, try this tactic: Lie back on the bed with your guy laying or kneeling in front of you. Close your legs during oral, and have him apply light pressure on your pubic mound while he rubs his tongue on the area around the clitoris. You might find that this indirect stimulation does the trick. 

The Elevator
This no-bed-required move is great for a quickie. Start out by kneeling in front of your guy as he’s standing. Cover your teeth with your lips, and slowly move your lips up and down on his shaft, alternating speeds. Stop to glide your tongue over and around his head, and glance up every once in a while. Bonus: Lean a mirror against a wall to the side of his body so he can enjoy the action from more than one angle. 

Heir to the Throne
There’s something about oral in a chair that implies a need-you-right-now hotness. Sit with your legs spread and your guy kneeling in front of you. This one really puts him in control, but feel free to suggest the technique you like best. Bonus: Opt for a swivel chair so he can turn it left and right mid-action.

The Face Sitter
This is a comfortable position for you and a super-erotic one for him. Lie back on the bed with a pillow behind your head, then have him straddle your shoulders. He can support himself by holding the bed’s headboard or a wall. Grab his hips to put yourself in control.

David Copperfield
As the name suggests, this move might make you think you’re in bed with a magician. Lay back with a pillow under your hips so your pelvis is tilted up. Bend your knees, and place your feet on his shoulder blades. Here’s where the magic comes in: While your guy is doing his thing, have him use his hands to push gently upward on your abdomen away from the pubic bone to help bring the clitoris out from beneath the hood.

Cowgirl 69
Consider this the absolute win-win when it comes to oral. Have your guy lie on the bed with you on top, facing the opposite direction. While you’re on top in 69, you can control the intensity of oral stimulation on your clitoris by lifting or pressing your pelvis. When you’re ready for a change, roll over to side-by-side 69. 

Hovering Butterfly
Get ready for total control. While your guy is lying down, straddle him by placing your knees at his ears. Hold onto a wall or headboard for support. For an added bonus, have him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips, pressing your clitoris against it in whichever way feels best. 

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Guys Are Licking Their iPhones To Practice Going Down On You

In theory, Lick, a new app for inexperienced cunnilingus performers, is a great idea. It includes three tongue exercises — a circular movement, a light up-and-down flicking, and a “freestyle” — that you can totally see improving dudes’ oral sex game, especially the ones who have no idea how a clitoris works.

Unfortunately, in practice, the idea of a guy going down on you with the same tongue that’s been touching his iPhone is not super-conducive to awesome oral sex. Remember that 2010 study that claimed some iPhones can have more germs than a public toilet? Vom-town.

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7 Hot Ways to Enjoy Receiving Oral Sex

Some women avoid receiving oral sex. Maybe it’s self-consciousness, a prior negative experience, or just ambivalence. But please, give it another chance. Give it lots of chances. Give it every chance. When oral sex works, it’s good. We just have to make it work.

1. Talk about it. Couples think that talking things out in the heat of the moment is unsexy, and it can be. But you know what’s less sexy? Two people not enjoying themselves because they don’t want to voice their opinions. No guy is going to stand up and run out of the room screaming “Fuck this noise!” if you give him a suggestion about what to do with his tongue or fingers. “A little to the left,” “softer,” or “faster” are all good, direct options. If you’re still self-conscious, try saying it in a sultry whisper. I’d listen to an audiobook called “Ten Things You Didn’t Know About Using Quicken” if it was read in a sultry whisper.

2. Physical cues work, too. We’re not (that) stupid. If you’re moaning, arching your back or pulling our hair, we’re going to keep doing what we’re doing. Positive reinforcement works when we’re doing something well. On the flip side, don’t fake it if we’re not doing a good job. It might make us feel good in the short term, but we’re only going to do the same thing next time, and if we don’t learn, you don’t come, and then no one’s happy.

3. Guys want you to come. PRO TIP: If you’re dating a guy who doesn’t care if you come, break up with him right now. Don’t be self-conscious about how much time he spends down there. He’s going to feel a lot better having made you orgasm than he will coming up for air. But do return the favor. Personally, I don’t like to leave the bedroom until both parties are satisfied.

4. Every vagina is beautifully, wonderfully, different. It might take a while for him to get a handle on what’s going on down there and how to work it in the right way. Relaxing and not worrying about whether or not something is going to happen is surprisingly liberating. There’s a reason Frankie Goes to Hollywood was one of the best voices of our generation. Also, don’t feel like you have to squirt. It’s usually tough to tell anyway, depending on how wet you are. On the other hand (tongue?) don’t be afraid to squirt, either. I once did a backflip I was so amped that I successfully made a girl squirt. Just let your vagina do your vagina.

5. Oral is a great warm-up for sex. Don’t worry if it feels good but you don’t come. It can still enhance the rest of the experience. There’s a reason it’s considered foreplay.

6. You might think vagina is gross/weird/smelly, but guys don’t. We think vaginas are awesome. No, we are not lying to you. Yeah, vaginas smell, but in a good way. Just make sure you don’t douche (it’s unhealthy) and shower regularly and you’re not going to have anything to worry about.

7. If you still feel weird about having the focus on you, sixty-nine. It’s a good way to get everyone involved. Just keep in mind it’s going to make it a lot more difficult to give instructions. Also, if you’re worried about having your butt in his face, see the point directly above this one but replace the word “vagina” with “butthole.”

The most important thing to keep in mind is that oral should be natural and comfortable, so follow these tips and adjust accordingly.

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8 ways to spice up Oral Sex

Going down is about to get even better

You probably have a ton of favorite positions when it comes to sex, but what about foreplay? If your pre-sex routine is feeling, well, routine, it’s time to get creative with your mouth moves. Take a page (or eight!) out of the Men’s Health and Women’s Health Big Book of Sex, and get ready for some orgasm-inducing oral.

One Up

This little tweak to traditional on-your-back oral gives you even more control. Lie down at the edge of the bed, and have your guy kneel on the floor in front of you. Raise one leg up, and support it by wrapping your hands around your hamstring. This raises your hip just a bit so you can add some movement to aid in his stroking.

Closed for Business

If direct clitoral stimulation is too much for you, try this tactic: Lie back on the bed with your guy laying or kneeling in front of you. Close your legs during oral, and have him apply light pressure on your pubic mound while he rubs his tongue on the area around the clitoris. You might find that this indirect stimulation does the trick.

The Elevator

This no-bed-required move is great for a quickie. Start out by kneeling in front of your guy as he’s standing. Cover your teeth with your lips, and slowly move your lips up and down on his shaft, alternating speeds. Stop to glide your tongue over and around his head, and glance up every once in a while. Bonus: Lean a mirror against a wall to the side of his body so he can enjoy the action from more than one angle.

Heir to the Throne

There’s something about oral in a chair that implies a need-you-right-now hotness. Sit with your legs spread and your guy kneeling in front of you. This one really puts him in control, but feel free to suggest the technique you like best. Bonus: Opt for a swivel chair so he can turn it left and right mid-action.

The Face Sitter

This is a comfortable position for you and a super-erotic one for him. Lie back on the bed with a pillow behind your head, then have him straddle your shoulders. He can support himself by holding the bed’s headboard or a wall. Grab his hips to put yourself in control.

David Copperfield

As the name suggests, this move might make you think you’re in bed with a magician. Lay back with a pillow under your hips so your pelvis is tilted up. Bend your knees, and place your feet on his shoulder blades. Here’s where the magic comes in: While your guy is doing his thing, have him use his hands to push gently upward on your abdomen away from the pubic bone to help bring the clitoris out from beneath the hood.

Cowgirl 69

Consider this the absolute win-win when it comes to oral. Have your guy lie on the bed with you on top, facing the opposite direction. While you’re on top in 69, you can control the intensity of oral stimulation on your clitoris by lifting or pressing your pelvis. When you’re ready for a change, roll over to side-by-side 69.

Hovering Butterfly

Get ready for total control. While your guy is lying down, straddle him by placing your knees at his ears. Hold onto a wall or headboard for support. For an added bonus, have him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips, pressing your clitoris against it in whichever way feels best.

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